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Joseph "Butch" J. Rexford
1933 ~ 2023 (age 90) 90 Years Old
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Joseph "Butch" J. Rexford, 90, went to be with the Lord on Tuesday, October 17, 2023, at his home. He was predeceased by his son, Joseph D. Rexford; his grandson, John Hudson; parents, Joseph P. & Anna Rexford; his sister, Ann C. Spolsky; his brother-in-law, Armand DeRitis; brothers-in-law, John, Leonard and Frank Kosicki; sister-in-law, Sophie DeLuca; and his nephew, Brian Rexford. He is survived by his loving wife of 63 years, Rose Rexford; 2 daughters and sons-in-law, Kelly & Allen Hudson, of Stouchsburg, PA. and Lynn & Charles "Patrick" McNeal, of Binghamton; nine grandchildren, Shannon Ingerman, Meghan & Tyler Gogluizza, MaryKate & Joseph Seborowski, Allen, Aaron, Joseph, Adam, Molly and Mackenzie Hudson. Butch is also survived by two great-grandchildren, Liam Nolan Gogluizza and Kelsey Ann Seborowski; a sister, Joyce DeRitis; many nieces, nephews, cousins; his IBM lunch crew and his snowbird friends from FL. He was a member of the Church of the Holy Trinity; and a Fourth Degree member of the Knights of Columbus. Butch was a veteran of the U.S. Coast Guard. He was retired employee of I.B.M. Corp., with 33 years of service. He was a volunteer tax preparer for AARP and had many other jobs; including being a milkman, a baker and a bartender. Butch had a smile that could light up a room and a friendly wave for everyone; he never made anyone feel like a stranger. He will be greatly missed. A Funeral Mass will be offered at 11:00 AM on Monday, October 23, 2023, at the Church of the Holy Trinity, 346 Prospect St., Binghamton, where the family will receive friends from 10:00 AM until the time of the Mass at 11:00 AM. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Church of the Holy Trinity. Arrangements by Bednarsky Funeral Home, Inc.